Effortless Adaptation – Short Version

Note: This is a new experiment. When writing, I tend to be a storyteller. But that means that often, these articles get a little long. (Some say, “wordy,” but I like storytelling better.) 

When designing future articles, starting with this one, I’m giving a nod to those who prefer a short, "Just-the-facts-ma’am" style. For those who prefer the ‘expanded’ version, the link has been included. Click here. 

Not every article will bend to this idea, but many will. Let me know what you think.

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A recent trip to Chicago reminded me of what it is like to drive in the “Windy City” versus small town Iowa. It triggered questions and convictions. 

There’s an urgency brought on by the sheer volume of cars on the road. Congestion is normal here. Getting around can be difficult. Chicagoans have adapted. They’ve put on an armor of aggressive action through speed and rapid directional changes. I’m sure they see it as the only way to survive in a grand metropolitan area that approaches 9 million people.

When getting close to the city itself, I found myself effortlessly adapting into the do-or-die driver of Chicago. I would normally consider myself a safe and courteous motorist. I believe in sharing the road with others. I believe in the idea of waiting my turn. I am willing to let another driver go before me, especially if they are determined to do so. 

But, without a thought, I let go of all those beliefs and habits once I was close to the Big City. What does that say about my commitment to safe driving?

If I let go so effortlessly in this get-to-where-you’re-going-at-all-cost scenario, what other moral and ethical commitments might also be subject to unconcerned termination?  

This worries me. I plan to check myself – often. I need to protect myself from, well, myself.

Caution: 

• Do not let the attraction of social media ‘friends’ decide thoughts and actions. 
• Reject mob mentality. 
• Hold morals and ethics, compassion and empathy, judgment and forgiveness, in open hands. Commit but be willing to listen. 
• Perfection is not a realistic goal. But these items cannot be allowed to ‘blow with the wind’
• Nobody is right all the time. This includes yours truly. 

While I am working on checking up on myself, I think that my next trip to Chicago should include a rented car. Maybe I’ll start with a place I heard about years ago: “Rent-a-Wreck”. 

I’ll let you know how it goes.